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Why I started Fertility Support Circles


Fertility Support Circles Denver

My husband & I started our fertility journey in January of 2023. By March of 2024, and still no pregnancy, I grew desperate to find a group of women I could connect with and possibly build a support network with. Sadly, I could not find an infertility support group in Denver, which was extremely disappointing. Instead, I found a Women's Healing Circle. After reviewing the website and reading reviews, I felt very hopeful for the experience. I eagerly purchased a membership thinking I was going to be invested for the long run.


The night came for my first circle; I had my husband drop me off for the 2 hour group session. As I entered the large yet inviting room, I couldn't help but feel nervous. I was very vulnerable at this time due to having spent the previous several weeks crying from frustration with my fertility journey. I found a seat and quietly waited for the rest of the women to arrive.


After about 15 women settled into their spots in the circle, the host briefly introduced herself and went over the outline of events for the night. Afterwards, she invited everyone in the circle to share whatever they wanted to share. We started counter-clockwise, making me the 4th woman in the lineup. The first woman to speak perked up and sat upright in her chair. She then proceeded to happily share that she had just found out she was pregnant. After her announcement, the entire room burst with shrieks of excitement and congratulatory remarks as my heart sank into the pit of my stomach; I immediately felt a lump in my throat. The woman went on to share that she had recently been on vacation for her honeymoon and that she and her husband got pregnant on their first try. My eyes burned and my vision blurred; I had to use all of the strength I had to fight back my tears. I wanted to run out of the room and never come back. I was living my worst nightmare.


The host enthusiastically told the woman that she knew she was going to get pregnant right away as I tried to tune everyone out and control my inner thoughts. The woman continued to express how excited she was to start her pregnancy journey and that she looked forward to sharing every single emotion and experience with the group. How was I going to speak about my fertility challenges after her pregnancy announcement? It was exactly what I had come to share. So, when it came time for me to speak, I introduced myself and then looked down at my hands as I, very sadly, shared my fertility challenges for the past year. The room went awkwardly silent. With tears streaming down my face, I looked up at the pregnant woman, apologized, and told her I was very happy for her but was having a very difficult time on my journey. I apologized for how I was feeling. I immediately looked down at my hands again. The host asked if I was open to comments (everyone before me and after me said yes) but I said no. The rest of the session went okay. At the end of the night, I grabbed my things and went straight to the exit. Unfortunately, the pregnant woman was sitting in front of the exit. As I made my way to the door, another woman approached the pregnant woman and excitedly struck up a conversation about the pregnancy announcement. I couldn't believe how inconsiderate they both were after seeing me walk right behind them; they had even waved and said goodbye to me. Of course, the stupid door got stuck so I had to desperately push as hard as I could as I shouted in my head "GET ME OUT OF HERE!" The door flew open and I could finally breathe.


As you probably guessed, this healing circle was not at all healing for me. I angrily vented to my husband about the experience and of course cried even more that night.


Nobody struggling on their fertility journey should ever have to go through an experience like mine. I am not sure why it is so difficult to find support on this journey but my goal is to change that. My vision for my Fertility Support Circles is to create a loving, compassionate and supportive community where individuals and couples on their fertility journey can find solace, understanding, and strength. These circles will be a safe haven for sharing experiences, accessing expert guidance, and nurturing emotional well-being. Through mutual support, education, and holistic practices, we will foster hope, resilience, and a sense of belonging, ensuring that no one feels alone in their pursuit of parenthood.


Whether you're just starting your fertility journey or have been on it for a while, these circles are here to support you.


What to Expect:

  • Empathetic Community: Connect with others who understand your experience.

  • Emotional Support: Share your feelings in a judgment-free zone.

  • Practical Tips: Learn about resources and strategies to help you on your path.

  • Activities & Yoga Classes:

    • 1 session per month will be activity-focused (think journaling, painting, arts & crafts, self-care workshops, guest speakers, group outings, cooking classes, DIY, partner bonding sessions, and more!)

    • 1 session per month will be a womb-centric class (think womb yoga, guided womb meditations, sound baths, and relaxation sessions)


📅 When: Every 2nd & 4th Sunday of the month at 6:00PM. Please see exact dates below -

  • Jun 16 & 30 (Please note this is the 3rd & 4th Sunday of the month to accommodate the launch)

  • July 14 & 28

  • Aug 11 & 25

  • Sep 08 & 22

  • Oct 13 & 27

  • Nov 10 & 24

  • Dec 01 & 15 (Please note this is the 1st & 3rd Sunday of the month to accommodate holiday schedules)


📍 Where:

  • 800 S Valentia St. Denver, CO 80247 (my home) + other locations such as parks, hiking trails, coffee shops in/around Denver


💌 How to Join:

Purchase a membership for $65 and get access to two 1HR+ support circle sessions per month. You may cancel your membership at any time. 



If you cannot attend both sessions offered in one month, you may purchase a single support circle session for $35.





Please send me an email at erikaperez_3@icloud.com if you have any questions or issues purchasing a single session or a membership.

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